Exercise Two: Breath Counting Meditation
This one takes 10 minutes. Sit somewhere quiet. Close your eyes. Count your breaths: one on the inhale, two on the exhale, three on the inhale, and so on. When you lose count — and you will — just start over at one. No judgment. Just restart.
Why does this work? Your mind’s job is to wander. That’s normal. What you’re training is the ability to notice when it’s wandered and bring it back. That’s the actual skill. The breathing is just an anchor point.
Do this daily for two weeks before you judge whether it’s working. The first week feels pointless — you’ll lose count constantly. By week two, you’ll notice you’re holding focus longer between the drifts. By week three, you’ve built a reflex: your mind drifts, you notice, you gently return. That same reflex applies to work tasks, conversations, and reading.